Tobias Suddaby, 2018 - 2024

I didn't know Tibby, I wish I could have but I know you, and my heart felt condolences and all the love that still remains burning brightly is for you and your family at this very sad time. Tibby will always be with you, he will be there every moment of the day watching over you. May God bless you all with the love and strength you will need to carry you through to happier days that will surely come along eventually. You know where I am. <3

Your son was clearly loved and adored. Even in his darkest time, he has saved other children. We are proud of him, and you.

Today's service was a beautiful celebration of Tobias' life. Every single person who was present will carry him in their heart forever. He was such an amazing little boy, and so so loved. Although your hearts may be heavy with loss your lives are so much richer because he was in them. He will always be with you. Sending lots of hugs x

There are no words. My heart hurts deeply for you. I cuddled my own son a little tighter reading about this. What a gift to you when he was alive, and also a saviour once gone.

This is not what we signed up when we give all of our heart and every drop of sweat to these amazing little human beings. Their true love and happiness is what keeps us going. Devastating. So sorry for your loss. May he lives forever in our heats. Tobias - bravest little one ever..

Tobias, you will be missed forevermore. Your parents are quite loved all around the world from all of us daddit folk, and we all hold a special place in our hearts for your family, and you. You were taken from our world too soon, young one.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss, and I want to thank you for sharing Tobias's story. Your strength in doing so is admirable, and I hope you find comfort in the days to come.

Little Tibby and family, From our family to yours, we are sending you support from afar. Although our well wishes and sympathies cannot cure your pain, we want you know the profound impact Tibby had on the world. All the way to Calgary, Alberta, Canada, Tibby’s story found us. We hope this story finds you in a time of need just like your love will find Tibby, wherever he is. Wherever You Are, My Love Will Find You” by Nancy Tillman I wanted you more Than you will ever know, So I sent love to follow Wherever you go It’s high as you wish it. It’s quick as an elf. You’ll never outgrow it... it stretches itself! So climb any mountain... Climb up to the sky! My love will find you. My love can Fly! Make a big splash! Go out on a limb! My love will find you. My love can swim! It never gets lost; never fades, never ends... If you’re working... Or playing.... Or sitting with friends. You can dance ‘til you’re dizzy... Paint ‘til you’re blue. There’s no place, not one, That my love can’t find you. And if someday you’re lonely, Or someday you’re sad, Or you strike out in baseball, Or think you’ve been bad... Just lift up your face, feel the wind in your hair. That’s me, my sweet baby, my love is right there. In the green of the grass... in the smell of the sea... In the clouds floating by... At the top of a tree... In the sound crickets make at the end of the day... “You are loved. You are loved. You are loved,” they all say. My love is so high, so wide and so deep, It’s always right there even when you’re asleep. So hold your head high And don’t be afraid To march to the front If your own parade. If you’re still my small babe Or you’re all the way grown, My promise to you Is you’re never alone. You’re my angel, my darling, My star... and my love will find you, Wherever you are.

Ive never met you or your family, but have shed tears for you and your Tibby. I am halfway around the world from you, thinking of you, and sending my love. May you find comfort in the love you shared and in the love of your family. Many hugs. I will be praying for you today and tomorrow

Thinking of your family, and your beautiful Tobias tonight. He was so loved. Talk about him often. Tobias' time here made such a big impact on those who loved him. Sending hugs across the internet <3 The following is a quote that really helped when my own son passed: “Grief, I've learned, is really just love. It's all the love you want to give, but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in the hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” - Jamie Anderson

All of my love and well wishes from Canada. May you be reunited someday.

Love from Sri Lanka

Tobias, I may not have known you but I can guarantee you are the light of your parents lives. A light that will never go out. I'm sure your cheeky little smile is still plastered on your face. You are a little fighter. Look out for you Mum, Dad and siblings. They love you lots and will miss you like crazy, so make some ruckus so they know you're near.

I'm so sorry for you and your loved ones, Tobias, but I also envy them... they got the chance to spend five years with you, and in this whirlwind existence we all live, that's a miraculous gift in and of itself. I hope that whatever afterlife awaits us all, you've got a front-row seat to watch the rest of your family live out their lives and get to greet them at the pearly gates in due time. Thank you for being an inspiration and fighting so bravely until the end. I'll always remember Tobias the Brave, and my thoughts go out to you and your family who dearly miss you.

So sorry for your loss. I've spent a lot of time thinking about Tobias since your first post. You are both very strong and wonderful parents!

Hey Tobias, Today, I was just thinking about you and your parents, buddy. I remember the moment seeing your picture and thinking, “what a beautiful and brilliant boy”. I’m a dad of 2 and I just want to say that I will always remember you, buddy. Peace be upon you forever.

I've thought about Tobias quite often since I read his story. It brings me to tears imagining all the pain your family is going through. I have a 4 year old and he is my entire world. If there is a silver lining, I have learned about this terrible disease and to cherish the time with my child. I hope you both grow stronger from this tragedy. My thoughts will be with you all. RIP Tobias.

Sending all the love. My heart hurts for you and Tobias siblings. May you find some peace in today’s ceremony.

I'm truly sorry for your loss. Tobias may you look after all of us

thank you for sharing the sweet memories of dearest tobias on daddit. i am reminded not to take for granted my children. i share in your sorrow as a fellow dad....may tobias rest in eternal peace.

Thank you for sharing your story, I am so sorry for your sudden loss. I hope you all get to listen to his heart beat, see his eyes and feel his breath as he lives on in others.

I read your posts on Reddit. I'm so sorry sorry, you've lived my biggest fear. I'm going to go give my son a cuddle right now in memory of your son.

From one bereaved family to another, we pray that your family will be surrounded by love and that the blessing of your beautiful son Tobias will be a light to you for all of your days. Tobias’ life matters. He will never be forgotten. Until you all are reunited on that other shore, finally and forever, may you hold each other close and know peace.

You guys have lived my worst nightmare. I’m a dad of 3, and my youngest son Theo had RSV as a newborn. Only a few weeks old and we were rushing him to the hospital. I’ll never forget those moments of holding him, full of tubes and shaking, wondering if each breath would be his last… It shakes me to this day, I’m tearing up as I write these words. But I was one of the lucky ones. Theo recovered and is currently a five year old fireplug that is so full of life and joy. He’ll never know how close he was. How by a thread he survived those nights. But I’ll never forget. You guys have lived my ultimate fears. I’m so sorry for your loss. Reading your posts on Reddit, it takes me back to those moments so vividly. Words can’t convey my emotions. If things went even a little bit different… I could be the one posting the same kind of thing. I’m so so sorry for your loss, as only a parent can be. I wish you nothing but the best in your lives and know Tobias will live on through you and your family forever. You’ve done an amazing job honoring your little boys memory. A child is never truly gone. They stay with us forever, and their mark changed the world, however brief they had to make it. I send all my love from Philadelphia, PA, USA and wish you peace in your time of healing. I know no one touched by Tobias will ever be the same, but that just goes to show how beautiful his brief time was. Much love to you all from my family to yours